Monday, February 25, 2013

I've never been to Coney Island


This is who I am. Someone scared. Afraid to fail. But at what? What have I done besides sit in my room feeling sorry and sick for no reason other than I like the comfort in sadness. This is stupid. I am 28. I have done some things but not enough. I am afraid of female inquiry. Why? Because I am not proud of myself, of what I have become in my twenties, what I haven’t become. And because I am unable to lie about this, in every question asked of me, I reflect the dirt I am too weak to scrub. I push away anyone and everyone who shows the smallest bit of interest. I am out of shape and unhealthy. Drinking would be a happy possibility if I was only able to have confidence around people and emote without fear of whiplash. To not care about their ‘successes,’ their ability to adapt to a world that in many cases seems horrific and gilded, but to care about them in a deeper way. To see if they are real enough to reciprocate this realness back. Marijuana is a crutch and the great amplifier. I have a novel with 5-star reviews on Amazon, which is nice, but I still find ways to tear down any accomplishment. Nothing is enough. I have done nothing else substantially writing-wise and need to start now. But I feel like I need to have ‘moments,’ too. I need to get out of my apartment. I have lived in New York for 5.5 years and done the same shit 99.5 percent of the time. I need to howl in the night of new neighborhoods and new possibilities. I need to see live music. I’ve never been to Coney Island. I make to-do lists for the sake of making to-do lists. My tweets are the most interesting things about me. I can’t remember the last time I ate at a nice restaurant when it wasn’t with my parents. I can’t remember the last time I felt real sexual intimacy. I long for what I despise in others. I should have been a bartender years ago, and that’s a whole other set of fears that are too disgusting to mention right now. I need to focus, focus, focus. What do I want? I want to finish the two books I’ve started this year and publish essays and things in the journals I’ve posted to my wall of my room. Next year, I want to read ~150 books and have articles published in bigger journals. That is the bare minimum. At 30 I will reconvene and take note of the situation. Maybe I’ll teach. Maybe I’ll help people. I want to help people. I need to save money. I need to find some way to make money that doesn’t involve me working at night. Or I need to fully immerse myself in the service industry and its colorful brand of chicanery. Either way, I need to have $--,--- in the bank by 2014 to make me feel like I have at least a little cushion. I need to stop taking cabs. I need to stop eating shitty food, especially the after-work binges. McDonald’s once a month is OK. Softball training starts now because who doesn’t want the Mel’s Burger Bashers to be champions? I need to take pictures of used condoms in natural settings with my 8-megapixel phone camera and write prose poems from those condoms’ perspectives. I need to find a better font than Perpetua. I need to make new friends and get in touch with old friends who can still be good friends. I need people. Everything is only as hard as I make it, which is stupid hard. That goes for writing, especially. I need to meet writers. To hang out with writers, to break apart my conception of being a worthless piece of shit to see if I really am a worthless piece of shit. I need to try. But I need to want to try, and wanting requires a desired direction, a sense of purpose. My apartment and especially my room needs a little more pimping out for it to really not suck. I need conducive workplace environments. I need to say hi to my neighbors. I need to relax and smile at children. I need to enjoy the subway. More immediately I need to get in the gym because my life does depend on it and sticking to a workout regimen for more than ~2 weeks is the most sure-fire way to curb self-hatred. I’m going to do a triathlon this summer whether I’m ready or not, and I hope I am. I need to do a reading of a story I wrote that I actually like. I need to find out what I actually like. Where do I want to travel? San Francisco, Iceland, and Miami all seem like short-term, viable options. I’m on pace to read 120 books this year which is probably what I’m most excited about. Paying loans sucks but is another reason not to take cabs. I am not dying. I want to be your friend. I want to find out about good music I’ve been missing. I want to find someone I can feel warm with and watch Game of Thrones and seriously discuss ancient alien theory, which doesn’t sound so hard to find but the catch is I’d like it if she read the Sam Pink and Joe Wenderoth books I’d let her borrow and report back to me and let me know that they or I or we are full of crap. I want to hold someone who pronounces the ‘d’ in ‘vodka’ but doesn’t drink it. If she does, it has nothing to do with calories. I need to step up my OkCupid game. Labyrinthitis has killed my ‘social life’ but maybe saved my actual ‘life.’ Panic attacks are stupid. Scandinavians are the blonde veneer of desperation. Not writing 500 words in a day should be punished by fingernail removal. Summer isn’t over. Summer is now. This is who I will be. I will struggle with words and struggle with running 3.2 miles and that struggle will unhollow me. I will buy a bike and a longboard. I will go to literary events in Brooklyn. I will go to Brooklyn and maybe even Queens for no other reason than public transportation makes it feasible. I will read so much. I will eat broccoli and fruit smoothies the way I want to eat McDonald’s: ravenously. I will use the awesome popcorn maker I got for Christmas. I will focus. I will not be afraid. I will focus on not being afraid. Possible outcomes of losing fear will include having ‘moments’ with people previously unknown and more interesting than those who are currently known, making out with someone whose tongue shares a mutual interest, having non-self-conscious good times. 30 means nothing but 30. I will figure out Instagram. I will fight for something. I will tweet. I will find balance. The rest of my life will be spent finding that balance. I will help one person find that balance. I will spin on the point of that balance until the shards of light created by that spinning glisten with the love I want everything to feel for me. The love I want to feel for everything. Today, I am spinning. I will go to Coney Island in the spring. The rest of my life will be spent.

Monday, February 18, 2013

the toads of the dead / in the forests of dung!


My Naked Brain by Leopoldo María Panero
(2011, Swan Scythe Press)
55 pages


Picked up Leopoldo María Panero's My Naked Brain because the photograph of the poet on the cover makes him look like a serial killer and I have to say I was not disappointed to learn that he currently lives voluntarily at a mental hospital on the Canary Islands. The poems, translated by Arturo Mantecόn, did not disappoint either. My favorite parts are Panero's descibing of bodies with equal parts disgust and reverence and the languages -- both physical and verbal -- they create: "Thus it is that the word, / so as to not die in another word, / disintegrates into ashes." Inundated with images of blood, semen, anger ("I will kill you tomorrow when the moon comes out"), the 25 poems give you the sense of a past transgression, something so sinister that it can't even be recounted directly. Maybe life itself is the transgression and Panero just wants us to wallow around in it with him to figure it out for ourselves. Maybe that's the way it should have to be. 

 I pray 
--because the empty words 
have flown without being heard
and only the prayer remains intact--
I pray that, 
even if it takes a long time for me to die
and have my name written, at last, 
on my tombstone, 
that they will be able to some day say
over that cold corpse
that I was not crazy.  

-- from "Correction Of Yeats"

Friday, February 15, 2013

mesmerizing morbidity


My review of Matthew Vollmer's Inscriptions for Headstones is in this month's issue of The Collagist.

Tuesday, February 5, 2013

discarded in moments

Almost Invisible by Mark Strand
(Knopf, 2012)
53 pages


I’d only read a couple of former Poet Laureate Mark Strand’s poems before rescuing his most recent collection from under a collection of booze-moldy umbrellas in a lost and found bin somewhere. The assumption for me was always that, for at least the last twenty years, one’s appointment to the position of Poet Laureate was the clearest indication of the embarrassing unreadability of one’s oeuvre (with the exception of probably only Charles Simic). Might have to quell the haterade because Almost Invisible’s 50 prose poems are for the most part on point. Disappearing  is the name of the game here, whether that means the past, the not-happened-but-will, into those weird spaces sandwiched between time, the darkness where “my freedom and my happiness” reside. The deceptively simple sentence constructions are embedded with a playful and beguiling elusiveness, something I’d compare to fellow septuagenarians James Tate, Simic, and even Tomaz Salamun, though Tate comes off as more sinister (and better) and Salamun delves much deeper into Rubik-like abstraction. Maybe 20 percent of Almost Invisible is nostalgic fluff – “those moments, so many and so long ago, still come back, but briefly, like fireflies in the perfumed heat of a summer night” – but the good stuff outweighs the meh, allowing the really taut 100-word jams to linger with a distinctive happy-sad luminosity:

It is winter and he walks hunched over with the collar of his coat turned up. When he gets to his room, he sits at a small table and looks at the book open before him. Its pages are blank, which is why he is able to gaze at them for hours.

At his best, Strand reminds me of an out-of-place, oddly genteel old dude at the end of a sketchy dive bar in a David Lynch movie doling out quiet wisdom expulsions that resonate in our world-bleary eardrums, even when they’re ungraspable. Which, in the end, is really nice considering the last hardcover major label collection I read was Billy Corgan’s fetid abortion of non-rhyming (and even worse when they occasionally do rhyme) Smashing Pumpkins outtakes otherwise known as Blinking with Fists. That book made me wish it would disintegrate. Almost Invisible makes the illusion fun.